Tommy Lee

The actress' memoir, 'Love, Pamela,' and her Netflix doc, 'Pamela, A Love Story,' dropped with more insight into their romance.

Despite a roller coaster of a relationship/marriage with Lee, Anderson writes in her new memoir Love, Pamela that she only truly loved him when it comes to the romantic relationships she's had in her life. Five years later, in 2020 on WWHL!, Anderson chuckled when the conversation of the sex tape came up again and said, "That was not a sex tape. I look at the differences in their personalities and their fearlessness and their ambition and their clarity, and I'm just so proud of both of them." The preview begins with James as Anderson sitting down for what appears to be a deposition as she chronicles her budding relationship with Lee. The scuffle was caught on tape, and the videographer thrown to the ground dislocated his hip as a result of the attack. The officer also shared that he was transported to a local hospital, noting that he had a visible injury on his face. "And when they said there was a Pamela Anderson staying there, I practically wet myself with excitement," Lee says in the book. "That was hands down the best day of my life," Lee recalls. One night, when the ex-employee and another contractor returned to the home to retrieve their tools after being fired, it's reported that Lee allegedly pointed a shotgun at them and told them to get off of his property. "The next morning, we asked the hotel to find someone to perform a marriage ceremony. He then left a message on her answering machine to inform her that he was "coming to find your a**." Anderson wasn't having it, and made it crystal clear to Lee that under no circumstance was he to book a flight to Mexico.

The couple famously only dated for four days before they tied the knot on a beach in Cancun.

Following the incident, Brandon gave a statement to [People ](https://people.com/music/tommy-lee-son-brandon-breaks-silence-fight-alcoholism/)blaming his “father’s alcoholism”. Both have followed in their parent’s footsteps with Brandon becoming an actor, who is best known for his role in the Netflix series “Sierra Burgess Is a Loser”. In February 1998 Lee was arrested for spousal abuse, child abuse, and unlawful possession of a firearm. The couple were together for three years, with Anderson filing for divorce in 1998. Anderson and Lee got married in February 1995 in Cancun, just four days after meeting one another. Advertisement

Pamela Anderson opens up about nearly overdosing on Advil and vodka during one of Tommy Lee's jealous spells.

[I loved Tommy](https://hollywoodlife.com/2023/01/31/pamela-anderson-loves-tommy-lee-feelings-relationship-documentary/) and I hated more than anything to upset him.” [particularly nasty incident](https://hollywoodlife.com/2023/01/23/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-jealous-david-chokachi-kiss-documentary/) with Tommy, where he “rammed his car into the makeup trailer, punched the cabinets and [threw] me into his car, driving off the set, tires spinning,” according to Pam. “I was confused, sad, tired, not in my right mind,” she wrote. [Pam and Tommy](https://hollywoodlife.com/feature/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-romantic-timeline-photos-4284637/) slowed down when she found out she was pregnant, although she wound up miscarrying. “I was used to his behavior and initially thought it was funny,” Pam admitted. Pam said she was “at the end of [her] rope” at that point, which led her to mix substances in a dangerous way. [Click to Subscribe to Get Our Free HollywoodLife Daily Newsletter to get the hottest celeb news.](/newsletter-signup/) “I looked like a bowlegged skeleton in a bathing suit, 105 pounds at 5 foot 7.” “The side effects meant I was losing weight fast,” Pam revealed. The drive, Fal, came to my condo to find me unconscious on the floor. “I interpreted it as his showing me how much he loved me and that he needed me to show him more attention.” Still, Pamela said this was a “challenging” time for her.

Pamela Anderson has opened up about some of the more painful parts of her life in her new memoir and the ramifications it had on her life and career.

this was much harder on everyone." "Playboy was innocent... It ruined lives, starting with our relationship and it's unforgivable that people, still to this day, think they can profit from such a terrible experience, let alone a crime." I had a new baby at home and one on the way. I thought, What does any of this have to do with or selling our private property?" I had a hard time sleeping.

The former Baywatch bombshell decided to tie the knot with the Motley Crue drummer without knowing his last name or where he lived and only asked when they ...

Seen in the 1989 'Pamela Anderson was never legally married to Jon Peters,' a statement on the actress' Twitter page read. There were reports she married 77-year-old A Star Is Born producer Jon Peters in Malibu in January 2020 for only a few days, but the actress subsequently denied it. Just weeks later, Rock ended the marriage, filing for divorce due to 'irreconcilable differences.' Seen in 2001 As a matter of fact, I left her $10 million in my will,' Peters told Variety in late January. The former Baywatch bombshell decided to tie the knot with the Motley Crue drummer without knowing his last name or where he lived and only asked when they were on the plane from Mexico after their week-long whirlwind romance back in February 1995. At this point, he was a household name in the rock world. 'Tommy ripped Brandon off me and threw me and Dylan into a wall,' she claimed. She called 911 and Lee was arrested. Seen at the 1999 MTV Video and Music Awards Pamela Anderson says she did not know Tommy Lee's surname when they eloped on the beach in Cancun, Mexico. She couldn't believe I had gotten married, cried that she had always dreamed of being at her only daughter's wedding.'

After years of having her life splashed across the covers of tabloids, Pamela Anderson finally has the opportunity to tell her full story in the Netflix ...

[two sons together](https://netflixlife.com/2023/01/30/pamela-anderson-children-how-old-are-her-sons-now/): Brandon Thomas Lee (born 1996) and Dylan Jagger Lee (born 1997). Anderson first filed for divorce from Lee in 1996, but the couple reconciled. The couple allegedly got back together by 1999 and had an on-again, off-again relationship throughout the 2000s. Anderson spoke to Variety recently and expressed how hurt she was by the release of Hulu’s Pam & Tommy. Here’s what we know about the status of their relationship and friendship as of 2023. In the documentary, Anderson opens up about all the things the world may not have ever known about her.

The duo crossed paths and shared a drink at Sanctuary, a Hollywood club, on New Year's Eve. (Alan Davidson/Shutterstock).