Ines de Ramon

"The decision to separate is mutual and occurred five months ago," a rep for Paul Wesley and wife Ines de Ramon tells PEOPLE.

Dobrev, 33, seemingly [confirmed the news](https://people.com/tv/who-is-ines-de-ramon-paul-wesley-wife/) during a podcast appearance that June when she referred to Ramon as Wesley's "wife." [Vampire Diaries](https://people.com/tag/the-vampire-diaries/) alum, 40, [was first romantically linked](https://people.com/tv/is-paul-wesley-secretly-married/) to Ramon, 29, [a jewelry professional](https://people.com/tv/who-is-ines-de-ramon-paul-wesley-wife/), in June 2018 when they were seen holding hands after a dinner date in New York City. Kind of realized what was important to me, reprioritized my life." It's so funny how time changes everything because I never thought he would be one of my best friends," Dobrev said at the time. "I'm in a fortunate position where I was able to take a break, and it was so important for me to do it," Wesley said. They [made their relationship Instagram official](https://people.com/tv/who-is-ines-de-ramon-paul-wesley-wife/) the next month while at a Montauk wedding with friends [Jessica Szohr](https://people.com/tag/jessica-szohr/) and [Nina Dobrev](https://people.com/tag/nina-dobrev/).

A rep for the actor confirmed the news of the couples' split to 'People.'

Kind of realized what was important to me, reprioritized my life." "I'm in a fortunate position where I was able to take a break, and it was so important for me to do it," Wesley said. [Paul Wesley](https://www.etonline.com/people/paul-wesley) and his wife, Ines de Ramon, are going their separate ways after three years of marriage. It's so funny how time changes everything because I never thought he would be one of my best friends," Dobrev said at the time. Wesley, 40, was first romantically linked to Ramon, 29, in June 2018 when they were seen holding hands after a dinner date in New York City. 2019, after photos of the pair wearing matching rings surfaced.

Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon were first linked in 2018 and tied the knot less than a year later — details on their split.

[from her wedding to Wesley](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/paul-wesley-is-secretly-married-to-ines-de-ramon-report/https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/paul-wesley-is-secretly-married-to-ines-de-ramon-report/) in celebration of their one-year anniversary. “It looked like Paul and Phoebe might have set Ben up with Shelley — seemed like a first date.” She had her head on his chest.” “They have decided to amicably split,” a rep for the pair told Us at the time. “They will continue to remain good friends.” Less than a year later, the pair were seen wearing matching rings on their wedding fingers, per photos published by the Daily Mail. That same month, the Tell Me a Story alum posted a snap via Instagram of himself and de Ramon seated next to [Ben McKenzie](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/benjamin-mckenzie/) and [Shelley Hennig](https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/pictures/teen-wolf-cast-where-are-they-now/shelley-hennig-malia-tate/),” an eyewitness told Us at the time. “The decision to separate is mutual and occurred 5 months ago. [Phoebe Tonkin](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/phoebe-tonkin/), whom he met on the set of TVD in 2013, when [they were spotted out](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/paul-wesley-and-phoebe-tonkin-split-after-nearly-4-years-together-w471422/) together. A rep for Wesley, 40, and de Ramon, 29, confirmed to Us that the pair “have separated,” in a Monday, September 19, statement. [Jessica Szohr](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/jessica-szohr/) and [Nina Dobrev](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/nina-dobrev/) during a wedding in Montauk, New York.

Paul Wesley's representative confirmed earlier on Monday that the Vampire Diaries alum and his jewelry professional wife, Ines de Ramon, have split after ...

After nearly four years of dating, they tied the knot in 2011, only to divorce shortly two years later. If Ian and I were to have a baby, this is our baby.' [Directionally Changed podcast](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/directionally-challenged/id1434271505) in June of that same year, according to [People. A month later, the two confirmed their budding relationship on Instagram. It's so funny how time changes everything because I never thought he would be one of my best friends.' Paul was once again pictured with no wedding band.

Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon are getting separated after being married for three years.

While speaking to People magazine in 2020, Wesley spoke about quarantine and the time he spent with Ramon and their dog Greg at home during the pandemic. Kirk in the Paramount+ show, Star Trek: Strange New Worlds. That apart, he has also essayed the role of James T. Ramon also has a nutrition health coach certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. In February this year, she also appeared in a photo campaign for Anita Ko Jewelry. The representative added:

The 40-year-old Vampire Diaries actor and his 29-year-old jewelry professional spouse have decided to go their separate ways, JJJ can confirm. Paul and Ines ...

(A [fourth series was also just revealed ](https://www.justjaredjr.com/2022/09/16/julie-plec-reveals-they-have-an-idea-for-a-4th-vampire-diaries-series/)as being in very early development!) [Ines de Ramon](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/ines-de-ramon/), [Paul Wesley](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/paul-wesley/), [Split](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/split/) “The decision to separate is mutual and occurred 5 months ago. They request privacy at this time.” [Ian Somerhalder](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/ian-somerhalder/) recently [revealed if they would be down ](https://www.justjared.com/2022/08/25/ian-somerhalder-paul-wesley-kick-off-us-open-with-their-brothers-bond-bourbon/)for a Vampire Diaries spinoff. [The Vampire Diaries' Paul Wesley & Wife Ines de Ramon Separate After 3 Years of Marriage](https://www.justjaredjr.com/2022/09/19/the-vampire-diaries-paul-wesley-wife-ines-de-ramon-separate-after-3-years-of-marriage/) [Paul Wesley](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/paul-wesley/) and his wife [Ines de Ramon](https://www.justjaredjr.com/tags/ines-de-ramon/) are separating.

The 'Vampire Diaries' actor and the 29-year-old jewellery executive went their separate ways earlier this year in a "mutual" decision to call time on their ...

Paul Wesley, who played Stefan Salvatore on "The Vampire Diaries," and his wife, Ines de Ramon, announced their separation.

He has since starred on the CBS All Access show Tell Me a Story. [according to](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/paul-wesley-ines-de-ramon-split-after-3-years-of-marriage/) Us Weekly. [ said](https://www.eonline.com/news/1347004/vampire-diaries-paul-wesley-and-wife-ines-de-ramon-break-up).